SEX CHURCH

A space for women to release their good girl conditioning and reclaim their inner baddie.

Sex Church is for the “good girls” who are ready to let go of their people pleasing tendencies and reclaim their power and deservingness. This offering is for those who are tired of self abandoning and becoming who everyone else needs them to be. It’s for those who are tired of not claiming their wants, needs, and desires in life and in sex. Sex Church is for women who are tired of hiding, pretending, appeasing, and are ready to reveal who they really are.

Sex Church

This four week container is in service to women exploring what pleasure looks like, feels like, and sounds like for themselves.

As women, many of us have been conditioned to caretake and prioritize others' needs before our own. We often look outside of ourselves and move through life (sex) thinking… “What do they want? What do they need? Who do I have to become in order to be loved here? What do I have to do in order to feel worthy or deserving?”

We might not even realize that we are constantly prioritizing our partners or lovers' needs over our own.

Since we’ve been playing out this pattern for so long, it can be challenging to even identify what it is that we want or need. It can be difficult to stay with our own internal experience and simply relax and receive — especially during sex.

In Sex Church, we are creating opportunity to attune to ourselves, and get to know our own wants and needs. We turn our awareness inwards (rather than always shining it outwards) and begin to discover what feels good, what doesn’t, what pleasure looks, feels and sounds like for us.

In this container, we prioritize pleasure and reclaim it as our own. We take responsibility for our pleasure instead of looking outside of ourselves for someone else to deliver it to us. This is a space for you to celebrate female pleasure, expand your sexual expression, and experience more of your fullness.

Sex Church is about more than just sex and sensuality. It’s about creating a space for women to unwind emotional experiences and unintegrated trauma that may be blocking (protecting) them from experiencing more pleasure.

We explore embracing the parts of ourselves that we were told were bad, wrong or not allowed. Reclaiming the parts of ourselves that we’ve denied, rejected or exiled in order to receive love and approval from family, religion, culture, and/or society. In this space, all parts are welcome — there is no way of being, thinking, feeling or expressing that is off limits, too much, or not allowed.

Allow this container to be an exploration of the complexity that is you — a multi-layered, multi-faceted walking contradiction. We are complex humans that are not meant to fit into any box, label or identity. This is a space where you can come express, embody and explore an expression that you might be curious about, afraid of, or triggered by.

In Sex Church we will try on different expressions, flavours or archetypes and see how it feels. All in the name of getting to know who we really are – free from the programming and conditioning that we’ve received from the outside world, to discover the truth of who we are.

We will dialogue with questions such as:

  • Can I trust the wisdom of my body?

  • Who am I underneath all of the messages I’ve received about how I need to show up in the world?

  • Who do I feel I need to be in order to receive love and approval?

  • Why is it challenging for me to ask for what I want or need?

  • What do I really want?

  • What is getting in the way of my receptivity?

  • Who do I not allow myself to be? What do I not allow myself to express?

  • What is life trying to teach me right now?

  • Can I surrender to what Love wants me to do?

The Practice…

In these practices, we will explore reconnecting with our body, reintegrating our shadow, reclaiming our pleasure and discovering our unique erotic expression. Oftentimes we learn how we are “supposed” to look, sound and express ourselves sexually through pornography or through witnessing someone else in their erotic expression (and then we try to replicate it).

During this series, you will discover what the erotic means to you. We release any “performance” based movement, or moving our bodies in a way that we think looks good or desirable. Instead, we tap into how our movements feel.

We welcome the full spectrum of expression and do not deny any parts of ourselves. These sessions will give you an opportunity to awaken and explore different archetypes that may include your: inner lover, sacred slut, wild woman, devotional queen or any other archetype you feel drawn to explore.

We will focus on re-sensitizing the body so that you can begin expanding your capacity for pleasure. Our body is the access point — we cannot experience more pleasure and sensuality if we are disconnected from our bodies.

Practices we will be exploring include (but are not limited to):

  • Somatic erotic movement

  • Exploring and tracking sensation in the body

  • Pussy breathing and Orgasmic breathwork

  • Somatic erotic touch

  • Sounding and vocal toning to move energy through the body

  • Discovering our embodied “yes” and “no”

  • The tender edge of our too-muchness

  • Archetypal Play

  • Journal Reflections

  • And more…

Details:

  • Dates: We will meet every Sunday for four weeks (March 16 - April 6 2025)

  • Time: 7-8:15 PM Saskatchewan Time

  • Where: Sessions will be held virtually via Zoom. You will be emailed a Zoom link 24 hours before the class begins.

  • Who: This series is intended for individuals who identify as women and have vulvas. All levels are welcome. No previous experience necessary.

*Note: Replays will be available for those unable to make it live. Replays remain available until April 20th 2025.